fix: clear aborted playback state, fix overlay passthrough, and guard du

- Reset app_managed_playback_pending on lifecycle cleanup to prevent state leak into next item
- Record visible overlay action only after command succeeds, not before
- Non-native passive overlay now always click-through on re-show (fix isNonNativePassiveOverlay ordering)
- Defer activeParsedSubtitleMediaPath assignment until after prefetch completes
- Move autoplay gate release into the hide branch of toggleVisibleOverlay
- Clear active Jellyfin playback when stopping media that never loaded
- Reset managed subtitle delay and delay key when no external tracks are available
- Await async removeDir in subtitle cache cleanup
- Guard duplicate delete clicks in MediaDetailView and SessionsTab with refs
- Escape key in DeleteConfirmDialog now calls stopPropagation and stopImmediatePropagation

plugin/subminer/lifecycle.lua

@@ -272,6 +272,7 @@ function M.create(ctx)
 			state.pending_reload_media_identity = nil
 			state.pending_reload_media_title = nil
 			state.pending_reload_reason = nil
+			state.app_managed_playback_pending = false
 			state.app_managed_playback_active = false
 			if state.overlay_running and reason ~= "quit" then
 				process.hide_visible_overlay()

plugin/subminer/process.lua

@@ -401,7 +401,6 @@ function M.create(ctx)
 	end
 
 	run_control_command_async = function(action, overrides, callback)
-		record_visible_overlay_action(action)
 		local args = build_command_args(action, overrides)
 		local command = build_subprocess_command(args)
 		subminer_log("debug", "process", "Control command: " .. table.concat(args, " "))
@@ -414,6 +413,9 @@ function M.create(ctx)
 			capture_stderr = true,
 		}, function(success, result, error)
 			local ok = success and (result == nil or result.status == 0)
+			if ok then
+				record_visible_overlay_action(action)
+			end
 			if callback then
 				callback(ok, result, error)
 			end